Is it really ok or even possible to buy a wife these days? Dating experts like Michael Kilkan say that even for someone in his age range, going out to a bar can be difficult. He believes that sometimes older women are too worried about their looks and not as interested in the person they are going out with as younger french women. He also says that sometimes these older women do not want to date younger men because they do not want to put so much effort into dating a young man. For these reasons, Kilkan says he would advice older women who are looking to date younger men to simply go out with them one or two times.